Today’s challenge for Elf 4 Health is to share our expertise. I wracked my brain and could not come up with anything. I mean I take pictures but I’m not an expert. I know about aperture and shutter speed. I’ve manually set the camera but am not an expert.
I teach all day long but you could call me a Jack of all trades but a master of none. There is nothing that I teach that stands out that I could say I’m an expert at. I write Individualized Education Plans and some of them have been great but I don’t think anyone would want to read about IEP’s and how to write them. Plus the laws constantly change so what I teach you today could be different tomorrow.
Then yesterday my family’s world changed when we lost my father-in-law. He was a great guy who played Santa every year. He will always be Santa in my heart. As family sat around last night, I gave my mother-in-law and sister-in-law their presents which were photo books from our big vacation in July/August. Their were pictures of the whole family together in a happier time. Memories were shared.
It was decided that my expertise is taking lots of pictures. It drives people nuts but in times like these those pictures are a good remembrance of the person.
So why should you take pictures?
1. It documents important events in your lives.
Last Christmas, Hubby started making plans for the whole family to go down to Charleston, SC for a family vacation. We knew that my father-in-law’s health was not the best so we wanted these memories of everyone at the beach for one last time. I probably took around 4,000 pictures at the different places we visited. Some of the pictures are scenery and sunrises/sunsets but others are pictures of family members. One of my favorite pictures is my father-in-law sitting on the balcony of the condo. He looks like Wilson from Home Improvement with the bars of the railing covering his face and you can only see his hat. Another picture I took was on our last night of the trip. It is a picture of my mother-in-law and him kissing. The second picture is my mother-in-law looking at me while he’s still looking at her wanting another kiss. That picture shows me what true love is.
2. You never know what is going to happen in life.
It’s great to have pictures of people who have impacted your life. Tomorrow is never guaranteed.
3. To document your family history.
I love looking at pictures of family members who lived before I was born. The boys get to see their great grandparents who lived and died before they were born. They get to hear stories about their great grandfather who flew in a bomber during World War II. We have pictures of him wearing his bomber jacket 50 years after he last flew. The boys know about him and what kind of person he was.
4. For moments like these
Those special moments that happen once in a life time. My father-in-law played Santa for 40 plus years. He was at our local mall for many years and now played Santa for parties. My father-in-law seemed to be rough at the edges but once he put his Santa suit on, he was truly Santa. It was magical. This picture was taken at our town’s lighting of the tree last year. My father-in-law did not know the boys were standing there. Even though it looks staged, this picture was totally candid and is one of my favorite pictures of them with Santa.
My words of advice though are:
1. Don’t worry about capturing everything that you miss out on experiencing life.
2. Don’t take the pictures and never look at them again.
3. Sometimes the best pictures are not the staged picture where everyone says cheese. The best pictures are the candid ones. Our wall is covered with those candid shots that turned out the best. They looked staged but were not. I just captured the picture at that right moment.
4. Share the memories with those you love and care about.
When I made the memory book, I left out writing any captions except for on one page. I did that so people could share the memories and our family history.